A reader writes:
I’ve really been enjoying your blog for the past
couple of months. I also recently got a used copy of
your book The Salvation Controversy from amazon.com,
and was happy to discover that it was autographed in
the front. The autograph is apparently from the
"James" years, so I wonder if it will be a limited
edition collectors’ item someday. š
Maybe. I was foolish enough for a few years to avoid my legal birthname–Jimmy–in quest of the "more dignified" James (during which time I also suppressed the native Southern elements of my speech), but I don’t know that it’ll have any economic impact on the value of my writings. Such foolishness can be part of growing up, but I don’ t know that it’ll make the stuff I write any more valuable. Maybe you could get an extra nickle. š
I’m writing you because I have a question, but let me
first give you a brief background. I am a (former
Methodist, current Southern Baptist) student who will
soon be graduating with a Master of Music degree from
a Baptist seminary, and (get this), largely because of
my studies at seminary, I do believe I may be on the
way to becoming a Catholic!
Congratulations!
I’ve been doing a lot of
research (much of it on the Catholic Answers website),
and I’m thinking that next fall I’ll probably start
RCIA. It’s kind of scary, but I’m definitely feeling
the pull in this direction.My question is this, and on one level it’s kind of
silly.
Okay, but I don’t view there as being silly questions, only silly answers.
I’ve never been much of a kneeler, mainly
because it hurts if I do it for very long. I go to
mass a lot with my mother (who converted to
Catholicism three years ago), and sometimes I try to
kneel some (they do have kneelers, and no one else
seems to have much trouble with this except maybe an
older lady here or there who stays seated). But I
knelt for some of the Good Friday service the other
day, and I’ve hardly been able to walk all day today!
This happened once before too, though on that
occassion I intentionally stayed kneeling even though
I was in pain during a mass (I guess what I thought
was a Catholic notion of self-mortification or
something-I’m all new at this).What I’ve run across on the Catholic Answers website
seems to indicate that during certain portions of the
mass, the faithful are supposed to kneel unless health
reasons indicate otherwise. I suppose this is some
kind of health reason, though I’ve never actually been
diagnosed with anything. (My mom has suggested that I
may be getting arthritis, which is of course always
welcome news at my young age!)Do cradle Catholics build up
more knee strength over the years?
That’s an interesting question, and the only thing I can say is, "perhaps." I don’t think it takes years, though. Once you start using your muscles in a new way, they build up pretty quickly. I’d think that any added knee strength from kneeling would be built up in a matter of weeks, not years.
Does anyone else
have this problem?
Oh, sure. Lotsa folks have knee problems or back problems or what have you. I myself have a back problem and can’t always kneel. (Incidentally, you don’t need a diagnosis for a medical condition to be excused from kneeling, you just need the medical condition.)
If I do become Catholic, will
people think I’m some sort of unpious wimp because I’m
not kneeling?
No. Like I said, lotsa folks are unable to kneel–either temporarily or permanently–and just staying in your seat won’t really attract attention. When I’ve been unable to kneel, I’ve never had anybody wrinkle their nose at me (and I’m usually totally anonymous in church, so it’s not like I get any deference for being an apologist or having a blog or anything).
Besides, if anybody did wrinkle their nose at me for not kneeling, all that would mean is that they’re paying attention to me instead of to the Mass, so I could wrinkle my nose right back at them.
Are you supposed to feel pain when you
kneel?
A little discomfort, maybe, but actual pain, no–certainly not anything that make it hard for you to walk afterwards. That goes beyond pain to doing some kind of actual damage to the body, and that isn’t the goal of kneeling. If you’re having anything like that then you are unambiguously excused from kneeling.
I wouldn’t worry about the issue of kneeling. If you find it too difficult to do–temporarily or permanently–then you are excused from the requirement, and people will not notice or care if you just sit. Even if they did, the important thing is being in union with Christ’s Church and receiving Jesus in the Eucharist. That’s where one’s focus should be.
Thank you so much for all you do. It is obvious from
hearing you on the radio and reading your writings
that you both really understand the Catholic faith and
have a heart for people.
Thanks. You are too kind.