A reader writes:
When a family member dies and one is unsure if they have been saved, can a living member pray for that person after they have died and possibly aid to their salvation. From what I understand there is no time table that God lives in and its possible hhe could use prayers after the person has died to use for their salvation when they die. Is there any scriptual reference to this? I sure would appreciate an answer to this.
There are two ways in which people customarily pray for the dead. The most common of these is praying for the person to have their transition into heaven smoothed in some way (i.e., that they spend less time in purgatory or have their experience of purgatory made less paiful or something). This form of prayer for the dead does not aid the person’s salvation per se, since all those who are in purgatory will go to heaven and are thus saved in that sense, but it can aid the process by which their salvation is brought to completion.
The kind of prayer that you mention is discussed a lot less but it still goes on a great deal. It’s entirely natural, when someone died, to ask God to pray for the person’s salvation. Since a person either is or is not saved (i.e., destined for heaven) at the time they die, we can’t pray that the person will be saved after they die, but we can pray that they were saved when they died.
At the time we say such prayers, their death lies in the past, and so whether this is okay depends on whether it is okay to pray for things that have happened in the past.
The answer is that it is okay (normally) and the reason is the one you identify: God is outside of time and so he can apply prayer that you say today to events that were occuring yesterday (or at any point in the past).
The only time that it is not okay to pray for something in the past is when you are praying for something that you know was not the case. For example, I could not justly pray that the September 11th, 2001 attacks never happened. I know that they did, and so I can’t pray that God stop them since I know that he didn’t (at least in my timeline).
I can pray, even today in 2005, that all those who died in the attacks were saved, and God can apply my prayers to them back in 2001, but I can’t pray that the attacks didn’t happen.
The rule is that you can pray for any event in the past as long as you don’t know that its outcome was contrary to your prayer.
If you know that then it constitutes a form of presumption to pray for the contrary, but since we don’t know the salvation of our loved ones, you can pray for that.





